Alien Romance, the daily comic strip

Jan. 5th, 2026 02:24 pm
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Ren abd Alex make a pizza date and Alex is inordinately excited

"So, you wanna... get a beer later?" Alex asks Ren as they continue walking through campus from yesterday.

"I don't drink," Ren replies, frowning. He's a self-proclaimed teetotaler. That's a whole story. "Sorry, Alex."

"No problem. We could go for coffee," says Alex.

"I don't dr--" Ren hesitates and kinda grins at Alex, realizing how difficult he sounds and trying a more agreeable tack. "How 'bout pizza? Trattoria is near my digs."

"Pizza? Already?!" Alex looks doubtful. "Kinda moving fast."

"Just a suggestion," Ren says.

"Let's do it! See you at, 6 maybe?" Alex is moving down another path now, turning around to shout his decision at Ren.

Ren grins over his shoulder. "Sure!" And then smirks slightly to himself as he hears Alex exclaim, "Haha! Wow!" behind him.

***

Ren is in for a couple of surprises, I think! But don't worry; I won't be following any tired old tropes. You know me and tropes! While I'm not afraid of them, I like to play with them. I don't follow tropes; tropes follow me.

***

Should I go into the teetotaler thing here? We've recently learned that Ren and his family are Quakers. That's not strictly true. They have a family history of being Quakers, and if anyone asks Ren while he's in the mood to talk about it, he'll claim to be one presently. But they've had some drama with the Quaker community in their area. Among the problems that came up was that Ren's brother Sig, who is 17 years older than Ren, enlisted in the US Army and didn't put 'Society of Friends' on his papers, so he got sent into combat. Their parents were furious, but Sig held his ground, and later came back with PTSD. And developed first a drinking habit, then a heroin habit. In fact, he brought the heroin market to the community.

We only catch a glimpse of Sig in the graphic novel; he's in the background at Ren's house at Christmas. We spend more time with Sig's son Jordan, who is close in age to Ren and who even comes to France for the wedding later. So there's been a lot of healing, rehab, and mending fences by then. It's not perfect. Sig appears a lot more in the flashback scenes I've done, because he was a looming presence in Ren and Maurice's childhood.

And that's why Ren doesn't drink.

That doesn't cover the coffee problem, though. That's not so dramatic. Ren just doesn't like coffee.

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Jan. 5th, 2026 01:44 pm
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Непривычно отсутствие смайлов: рука сама тянется поставить "нравится", а там пусто.
Если есть что сказать, понятно, что пишем комментарий, а если просто хотим выразить свои эмоции по поводу написанного, то как - словами?
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я пару дней назад получил очень сильный УО, от которого пока отхожу. не могу ничем заниматься.

в общем если кратко - существуют 3 основные состояния сознания - жизнь, сон и смерть. и можно еще Проснуться. потому что мы действительно сон какого большого космического существа.

если попадаешь в это пространство - тебя поздравляют с возращением. и спрашивают - хочешь ли ты еще поспать. я сказал - да. и сейчас жалею об этом.

прежде всего потому что не могу заснуть. как я сейчас понимаю, те, кто хоть раз просыпался - они уже не могут попасть в состояние сна. вообще - никак. даже выпив бутылку национального напитка ((

и это довольно мучительно ...


вот, что алиса говорит по этой теме:

Возможно, имелась в виду глава «Сон и смерть» из книги «Шри Ауробиндо, или Путешествие Сознания».

В главе рассматривается разграничение между сном и бодрствованием, между жизнью и смертью. Автор считает, что разделение нереально — оно возникает лишь в результате недостаточности сознания. Существует бесконечная «лестница» взаимно пересекающихся и существующих одновременно реальностей, шкала планов сознания, которые следуют непрерывно друг за другом — от чистой Материи до чистого Духа. Жизнь, смерть и сон — это различные положения сознания внутри этой шкалы.

Шри Ауробиндо считал, что ключ к существованию — способность обладать сознанием. Если человек недостаточно сознателен в жизни, то таким он останется всегда и везде, смерть будет действительно смертью, а сон — настоящим оцепенением.

Автор утверждал, что смерть — это не отрицание жизни, а процесс жизни. По его мнению, в итоге не будет ни смерти, ни сна так, как их понимают, — это будут различные способы восприятия тотальной Реальности.

Фундаментальная задача — начать осознавать различные степени реальности. Когда человек закончит эту работу, разрушатся все искусственные границы, которые разделяют различные уровни существования.

Во время сна или в момент смерти человек идёт в силу некого притяжения в те места или к тем планам сознания, с которыми уже установил связь.

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Jan. 4th, 2026 08:06 pm
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I'm doing alright so far with my goal of less mindless scrolling and making the internet a physical place again. Not perfect but alright.

The main issue I've run into is that, naturally, my closet doesn't have an outlet and the extension cord I thought I had turned out to be half of an old computer power cord. So, Chad can't be plugged in whilst put up in there. In another world, this would be fine. "Computer time" would just be the length of his battery life. But his battery life isn't all that it used to be. And between classes, writing/digital art and checking in with news/people, I can go through it without doomscrolling ever coming into the picture.

So, that's a problem that'll need to be solved. Should be easy enough-- just get an extension cord-- but I've not had the opportunity to go get one just yet. I'm trying to hold myself to a rule that I can only use Chad when he's in his spot but waiting for him to charge can be a bit too much of a waste of time, depending on what I'm actually doing and what needs done. I can honestly say, though, that I already feel a difference when I use him in his designated place vs in bed or on the couch. Once I get the charging situation taken care of, I think this new setup is going to serve me well.

Секс и ворчунство

Jan. 4th, 2026 09:16 pm
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 Праздники это хорошо, но и о приземленном надо думать.
Половину декабря у нас гостила теща, потом приехала дочка защищать дипломную работу. Потом отпраздновали первое Рождество, теща уехала, дочка осталась праздновать Новый Год и второе Рождество. 
И все время я голоден. Со временем привыкаешь, и не так тяжело, как поначалу, но заметил за собой такие изменения.
Первое. Я раньше вообще не обращал внимания на женские обнаженные части тела в телевизоре. Пофиг.  А это начал замечать, пару раз точно себя подловил на этом.
И, во-вторых, я стал ворчать. То не так, те не такие и т.д. И настроение хорошее стало реже
Как вы справляетесь с  такой зависимостью? Как у вас проявляется  недовольство сексуальным голодом?

Alien Romance, the daily comic strip

Jan. 4th, 2026 01:05 pm
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Ren and Alexander walk on campus

Alexander is one of the classmates Ren met earlier in Evolutionary bio. "Ren, how'd you do on the test?" he asks as he walks along the walkway with Ren, who is half a head taller than him.

"Aced it, thanks to you and Carla," Ren says. "Our study group is saving my butt."

"Oh yeah?" says Alexander. He kind of side-eyes Ren. "You really like Carla, don't you?"

"She's an awesome friend,"Ren replies, "But that's all I want. I'm trying to make as many friends as I can, but I'm not looking for a girlfriend."

"Me neither! Wow, I didn't know!" Alexander exclaims.

"Okay..." says Ren.

***

I'm starting to lean toward story arcs that impose misfortune upon my characters. I guess I'm in some kind of mood. This is not one of the darker ideas that I have; in fact, I don't exactly know where this one is going. Will Ren get something nice out of this friendship? Or more heartache?

He's actually been doing all right in his pre-med track courses, but he has a couple of obstacles: for one thing, he's from a rural county with a very small school, and studies have shown that students of his background often struggle when thrust into a bustling university environment. Also, he comes from a family with its share of troubles, and his mental health isn't always great.

And one more obstacle of his own making! Ren himself is very intelligent, but he tends to compare himself unfavorably to Christine, who is legitimately brilliant and a hard worker and who completed her bachelor's in 3 years.

He'll find a way to have low moments on his own. He doesn't need my help.

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Jan. 4th, 2026 04:25 pm
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Дорогие сообщники, добро пожаловать на новую площадку!
Предлагаю под этим постом задавать вопросы по техническим и другим аспектам, связанным с новой платформой и сообществом. Правила пока те же, но мы планируем их переработать, чтобы сделать более удобными для чтения без изменений по сути.

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Jan. 3rd, 2026 11:59 pm
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I've decided to do weekly updates on my personal curriculum progress, just to help keep me honest.

Since this was a short week, as far as the new year and therefore my curriculum schedule are concerned, I haven't got much to report. I've stuck to my daily Korean lessons so far and I'm on track, per the program's recommended rate of progress. I'm gonna try to come up with quarterly "field trips" for this course. I've seen a few people do that and it's a fun idea. There's an Asian culture fest in the summer that always has a Korean booth and attractions, so that's the third quarter trip settled. I only thought about it today and I've had other stuff to do, so I still need to look around at what else might work. Since the course itself has inbuilt examinations, I'm not worrying about coming up with a final project. Might think of doing something self-assigned, though, just to spice it up.

Clarinet practice guidelines I've looked up suggested thirty-minute practices for beginners, forty-five-minute practices for intermediate and sixty-minute practices for advanced, all at least five days a week. My plan is to stick with thirty minute sessions for the first month, go on to forty-five for the second and then sixty for the third. I'd actually intended to keep clarinet practice a weekday thing but I went ahead and put in a session today since I wasn't really where I wanted to be after the first two days of reacquainting myself. I'm still having trouble maintaining proper breathing and sight-reading notes, both of which I'll work on without the instrument on weekends going forward. I'm sticking with self-learning for at least this first quarter but I've decided to look into formal lessons to continue after that, so we'll see what I find. I've also decided that my final project for this quarter will be a small "concert" for my family (or as many of them as I can get in one place at that time, anyway).

I think coding and algebra are going well but I also think I'm going to change my schedule a bit. I'm going to cut my coding down to just Saturday and Sunday, really just to give myself more time for other things on Friday. That might change again in the future but at this point, I'm pretty confident I can make the progress I want with HTML and CSS in a few hours per weekend. I'll still do small reviews through the rest of the week, of course. I've decided that this class will also have a final project-- naturally, a website. The topic of which I'm tasking myself with coming up with by the end of this month, so I can plan out how I want it to look. It'll probably be a fansite of some kind or something to showcase my crochet but we'll see. I need to figure out what free hosting is still available in this day and age too.

As for algebra, it occurred to me that doing it on Friday, Saturday and the following Sunday is a bit weird for something I'd planned to break up into weeks, seeing as I'm working on an American calendar. I mean, I guess I could read through the lessons on Sunday, give myself homework to be checked on Friday and then review and take a test, if available, on Saturday... Actually, now that I say that out loud-- so to speak-- I'm not sure why I shouldn't just do that. So, uh. Disregard what I said about changing the schedule for this one, lol. The website I'm using for guidance actually breaks their algebra resources into thirteen sections but the first of these is for prerequisites, so I went through that section for this shortened week and the plan now is to cover one of each of the other twelve sections for each of the next twelve weeks. I glanced at the worksheets available on the site and it looks like there's at least one available per section. And even if there's not or the provided worksheets prove to be inadequate, I don't think it'll be difficult to find more elsewhere on the internet. I feel like this class should have some kind of final project, too, since the site provides tests but no exams, but I've not come up with anything yet. Which does seem silly, tbh, since algebra has plenty of practical applications. Might google about it, Idk.

Side note: I added three whole unrounded three-digit numbers in my head today and got the correct answer. You may clap uwu

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Jan. 3rd, 2026 11:54 pm
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two log cabins with snow on the roofs in a wintery forest the text snowflake challenge january 1 - 31 in white cursive text

Challenge #2: Pets of Fandom

Loosely defined! Post about your pets, pets from your canon, anything you want!


Well, I'm certainly not going to pass up an opportunity to talk about my pets! I have a ball python named Travis. Not sure how old he is but he's been with me for about seven years. A friend of my mom's had to vacate her apartment suddenly and there was no space for Travis, who was her son's pet, with the family they stayed with while trying to find housing. I agreed to take Travis in while they got things sorted. The market being what it's been for the last decade, that took some doing. By the time they had a place, her son wanted a puppy. And, of course, I was happy to keep Travis ♥

I also have a long-haired tabby named Peppercorn. We found her outside my window not long after I lost my previous two cats to age-related health complications. I really didn't think I was ready for another cat, wasn't even sure I wanted one, but it was nearing the Fourth of July and I didn't like the idea of leaving her outside for that if I could help it. We coaxed her with food and eventually convinced her to come inside. The plan was to take her to a shelter asap but then she curled up on my pillow and did the slow blink and, well, she's still here.

Aaand since I'm not one to pass up an opportunity to make something about Transformers, even just a little, here's one of my favorite scenes of Thundercracker and his dog, Buster.

A giant robot worrying over a small brown dog wearing a spacesuit.

I love the idea of Cybertronians having Earthling or Earthling-like pets. The inherent tragedy of a functionally immortal being loving a creature so comparatively short-lived. And yet, the inherent beauty of a life so brief meaning so much against a backdrop of millions of years.

Progress on the graphic novel

Jan. 3rd, 2026 04:53 pm
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I have a possible new image host. Cross your fingers that these images will be visible more reliably than the other sites I've tried.

Here's a before-and-after of a panel in my graphic novel. It's Maurice's first day on the job, as Jon's home health aide. He's cooking dinner and Ella comes home with Ren and Christine accompanying her.


This old version is so scribbly


It really needed a facelift

I redesigned their flat so the front door is located at an angle distinct from Ren and Maurice's flat. The kitchens still look similar. I should have established the layouts of each flat before I started drawing anything at all, instead of cobbling it all together as I went. Having the apartments be similar when I'm not keeping track is better for continuity; then I won't have to work as hard to remember whose door I'm drawing. But it's terrible for readers.
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Ладно, не буду томить! Раскрыла каменты (спасибо всем, кто догадывался) к загадке о Пороке, противоположном Искусству , по совокупному мнению художников середины 16 в. (информация от Вазари, конечно, а самый-то катафалк Микеланджело, будучи глиняным, до нас не дошёл).
Это по-ра-зительно. Респонденты за отчётные сутки вспомнили все-кроме-одного пороки из классического списка (я привожу его по-латыни, чтобы включить все варьянты перевода, например, Luxuria респонденты предлагали как Похоть, Любострастие или Разврат, superbia – как гордыню или Тщеславие и т.д.), а также прибавили к этому Уныние, а также ещё там по мелочи того и сего –
- но никому не пришла в голову входящая в классический седмеричный список invidia!
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А вот её-то, голубушку, в виде опутанной змеями вредной старухи, и изобразили коллеги Микеланджело под ногами у победоносного Искусства.
Конструкция, конечно, не бесспорная, но понять художников можно. Имелась в виду, конечно, и внутрицеховая зависть, очень по тем временам (согласно в первую очередь тому же Вазари) актуальная и активная, и зависть «внешняя», прежде всего со стороны духовного сословия. Зависть тех, чьё профессиональное творчество заключалось единственно в аккумуляции возможно более густых толп, лишённых права на собственное творчество. Покойник (согласно Вазари) очень таких не любил.

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Jan. 3rd, 2026 03:53 pm
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...и при слове "грядущее" из русского языка
выбегают черные мыши и всей оравой
отгрызают от лакомого куска
памяти, что твой сыр дырявой.
После стольких лет уже безразлично, что
или кто стоит у окна за шторой,
и в мозгу раздается не земное "до",
но ее шуршание. Жизнь, которой,
как дареной вещи, не смотрят в пасть,
обнажает зубы при каждой встрече.
От всего человека вам остается часть
речи. Часть речи вообще. Часть речи.


Иосиф Бродский


…and when "the future" is uttered, swarms of mice
rush out of the Russian language and gnaw a piece
of ripened memory which is twice
as hole-ridden as real cheese.
After all these years it hardly matters who
or what stands in the corner, hidden by heavy drapes,
and your mind resounds not with a seraphic "doh",
only their rustle. Life, that no one dares
to appraise, like that gift horse's mouth,
bares its teeth in a grin at each
encounter. What gets left of a man amounts
to a part. To his spoken part. To a part of speech.


Joseph Brodsky